A legal sex worker shares what it’s really like to work in a brothel
Imagine you’re standing in line, shoulder to shoulder, alongside 20 or more incredibly beautiful women, all vying to be “chosen” by the same man. Stressful, right? Now, picture doing that 12 to 14 hours a day, five days a week. In a nutshell, that’s my job.
I’m the highest-earning legal sex worker, not only at the Moonlite BunnyRanch, but also in the United States. Over the past two years, my chosen career has taught me invaluable lessons about myself, about men, and about how we view sex work as a society.
So, what is it like to be a legal sex worker? It’s countless hours of my life I’ll never get back sitting at the nail salon. It’s spending more than $2,500 per year on condoms and lube. It’s stigmatizing, degrading, difficult, and the best thing I’ve ever done with my life.
My job is that of a psychologist, relationship coach, and sexpert all rolled into one. During downtime, I continue to educate myself on matters of human sexuality, psychology, and sociology — books, lectures, online videos — anything I can get my hands on. This knowledge bank has become my lifeline when figuring out how to navigate the masses.