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Whoever coined the phrases “two’s company, three’s a crowd,” or “third wheel,” probably didn’t have enough threesomes in his life. But that doesn’t have to be true for you. There are so many reasons why having a threesome is a bucket list item for many people around the world, but we’ll just talk about the top five why you should have your first threesome at the Chicken Ranch.

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There are so many stereotypes that our culture just won’t let go of—and one of the most harmful is that masculine men don’t need close relationships. It’s old fashioned and destructive, yet it controls the lives and diminishes the happiness of so many men. The idea that you’re less vulnerable the less intimate you are is just not accurate. Science bears out time and time again that social isolation is dangerous for your health, and having relationships—close relationships—is the key to a long life. Though some might think it’s manlier to fear intimacy, the truly hardcore thing to do is to face that fear, and seek vulnerability even if it is challenging. So, let’s talk about what it looks like when you lack intimacy, and how to create a path toward intimate relationships in the future.

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If there’s one thing that everyone in the world can agree on, it’s that we love a good massage. It might be the only thing that just about every single person enjoys. After all, what’s not to love? The warm, intimate touch of your partner’s fingers? The overwhelming, full-body relaxation and release of muscle tension? Any way you look at it, massages are one of the best forms of self-care (or partner care!) you can find.

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Erotic massage combines two of my very favorite things: sexual pleasure and relaxation. Let’s discuss the different types of erotic massage and some tips for giving them a try from the comfort of your own home.

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When you get a divorce, you need time to heal. You’re grieving the death of a relationship, of a vision you had for your life, and of an identity you held as a spouse. You must take time to remember who you were before the marriage before moving on to who you want to be, now that you are single again. Sex work can make this process a bit easier and, dare I say, fun. So, don’t feel like you have to go through this alone, when I can partner with you to ease the loneliness and kick start your sexual healing.

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Changing the calendar didn't just signify the end of a year—it signifies the start of something new. Just like many times in the past (think about the roaring 20s), tradition was left behind and modernity was embraced in an unprecedented way. That means a lot of changes could be underway for sexuality trends. Below are my predictions for the sex trends emerging in 2022 that could change the landscape of sexuality as we know it.

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There are only so many ways that genitals fit together, but how you fit them together can be life-changing, inspiring, and mind-blowing. So, as we begin a brand new decade, don’t let your sexual routine of yesteryear weigh you down. Let’s consider some new sex positions and promise ourselves that this year will be a year of new paths toward orgasm. I’ve got some ideas below—which are suggestions you can adapt in order to be inclusive of all genders, couple configurations, and abilities— to add to your to-do list.

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Most people think that dirty talk should come naturally. But when you hear what people say in pornography, that might not be exactly what goes through your head while you’re having sex with your partner. Below are some tips on how to get comfortable with your dirty side and how to get started using your mouth in bed.

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Let’s take a moment right now to get deep—and I don’t even mean in a sexual way. If you thought back to your first love, who would that be? Do you remember the last time you saw them? I’m hoping your answer is that you saw them today, in the mirror, because it’s crucial to be your own first love. If that doesn’t resonate with you, it might be time to reconnect with yourself. Yes, today, we’re going to talk about self-love, and I only partially mean that in a sexual way.

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Understanding your love language (and your partner’s, if applicable) can make a huge difference in your relationship. Though many people instinctively show love in the way they feel it, it’s more important to show love to the people who are important to you in a way that makes them feel loved. Basically, your efforts will count double if they are thoughtful and target someone’s love language, because they will feel cared for in the way that’s most accessible to them. Take our quiz (and, while you’re at it, think really carefully about how your loved ones would answer the same questions if you can), and you can say goodbye to A-for-effort, lackluster birthday gifts, celebrations, and other ways you care for the VIPs in your life.

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