Exploring Erotic Massage
Erotic massage combines two of my very favorite things: sexual pleasure and relaxation. Let’s discuss the different types of erotic massage and some tips for giving them a try from the comfort of your own home.
Healing Sexually From a Divorce
When you get a divorce, you need time to heal. You’re grieving the death of a relationship, of a vision you had for your life, and of an identity you held as a spouse. You must take time to remember who you were before the marriage before moving on to who you want to be, now that you are single again. Sex work can make this process a bit easier and, dare I say, fun. So, don’t feel like you have to go through this alone, when I can partner with you to ease the loneliness and kick start your sexual healing.
Top 5 Emerging Sex Trends in 2022
Changing the calendar didn't just signify the end of a year—it signifies the start of something new. Just like many times in the past (think about the roaring 20s), tradition was left behind and modernity was embraced in an unprecedented way. That means a lot of changes could be underway for sexuality trends. Below are my predictions for the sex trends emerging in 2022 that could change the landscape of sexuality as we know it.
Top Five Sex Positions to Try in 2022
There are only so many ways that genitals fit together, but how you fit them together can be life-changing, inspiring, and mind-blowing. So, as we begin a brand new decade, don’t let your sexual routine of yesteryear weigh you down. Let’s consider some new sex positions and promise ourselves that this year will be a year of new paths toward orgasm. I’ve got some ideas below—which are suggestions you can adapt in order to be inclusive of all genders, couple configurations, and abilities— to add to your to-do list.
Getting Comfortable Talking Dirty
Most people think that dirty talk should come naturally. But when you hear what people say in pornography, that might not be exactly what goes through your head while you’re having sex with your partner. Below are some tips on how to get comfortable with your dirty side and how to get started using your mouth in bed.
Let’s take a moment right now to get deep—and I don’t even mean in a sexual way. If you thought back to your first love, who would that be? Do you remember the last time you saw them? I’m hoping your answer is that you saw them today, in the mirror, because it’s crucial to be your own first love. If that doesn’t resonate with you, it might be time to reconnect with yourself. Yes, today, we’re going to talk about self-love, and I only partially mean that in a sexual way.
The Ultimate Love Language Quiz
Understanding your love language (and your partner’s, if applicable) can make a huge difference in your relationship. Though many people instinctively show love in the way they feel it, it’s more important to show love to the people who are important to you in a way that makes them feel loved. Basically, your efforts will count double if they are thoughtful and target someone’s love language, because they will feel cared for in the way that’s most accessible to them. Take our quiz (and, while you’re at it, think really carefully about how your loved ones would answer the same questions if you can), and you can say goodbye to A-for-effort, lackluster birthday gifts, celebrations, and other ways you care for the VIPs in your life.
Unique Romance Tips
t never hurts to consider your partner’s love language, either, to make sure they feel as appreciated as possible on this day of love. So if they love gifts, be sure to tell them exactly why you thought of them when you found something they will love. Or, if they experience love through acts of service, spend time doing a special project for them, and they will think of you every time they see it. With Valentine’s Day nearly here, I have some unique romance tips below to help you to steer clear of all the clichéd waters and do something truly romantic: the unexpected.
Sexting: The Next Best Thing to Sex
Sexting can be a fun way to explore new facets of your sexuality, and it won’t be awkward if you avoid some of the pitfalls. It’s a great way to stay connected to your partner when you can’t physically be together. So, below are some tips to get you started sexting.
Unpacking Personal Stigmas and Biases About Sex
Biases are sneaky little buggers. When they align with what’s culturally considered normal, they can even be invisible. Personal stigmas and biases about sex are even more covert because sexuality isn’t a subject that we talk about every day. Since the topic of sexuality is already taboo, it allows toxic ideas to fester unnoticed. But it’s your responsibility to learn about the biases you have and do what you can to dismantle them. It’s not only good for the people that you hold unfair opinions of—it’s good for you, too! After all, you don’t want to spend your whole life believing myths and falsehoods about people who are different from you just because that’s the information you were given during childhood.