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There are only so many ways that genitals fit together, but how you fit them together can be life-changing, inspiring, and mind-blowing. So, as we begin a brand new decade, don’t let your sexual routine of yesteryear weigh you down. Let’s consider some new sex positions and promise ourselves that this year will be a year of new paths toward orgasm. I’ve got some ideas below—which are suggestions you can adapt in order to be inclusive of all genders, couple configurations, and abilities— to add to your to-do list.

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Most people think that dirty talk should come naturally. But when you hear what people say in pornography, that might not be exactly what goes through your head while you’re having sex with your partner. Below are some tips on how to get comfortable with your dirty side and how to get started using your mouth in bed.

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Let’s take a moment right now to get deep—and I don’t even mean in a sexual way. If you thought back to your first love, who would that be? Do you remember the last time you saw them? I’m hoping your answer is that you saw them today, in the mirror, because it’s crucial to be your own first love. If that doesn’t resonate with you, it might be time to reconnect with yourself. Yes, today, we’re going to talk about self-love, and I only partially mean that in a sexual way.

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Understanding your love language (and your partner’s, if applicable) can make a huge difference in your relationship. Though many people instinctively show love in the way they feel it, it’s more important to show love to the people who are important to you in a way that makes them feel loved. Basically, your efforts will count double if they are thoughtful and target someone’s love language, because they will feel cared for in the way that’s most accessible to them. Take our quiz (and, while you’re at it, think really carefully about how your loved ones would answer the same questions if you can), and you can say goodbye to A-for-effort, lackluster birthday gifts, celebrations, and other ways you care for the VIPs in your life.

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t never hurts to consider your partner’s love language, either, to make sure they feel as appreciated as possible on this day of love. So if they love gifts, be sure to tell them exactly why you thought of them when you found something they will love. Or, if they experience love through acts of service, spend time doing a special project for them, and they will think of you every time they see it. With Valentine’s Day nearly here, I have some unique romance tips below to help you to steer clear of all the clichéd waters and do something truly romantic: the unexpected.

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Sexting can be a fun way to explore new facets of your sexuality, and it won’t be awkward if you avoid some of the pitfalls. It’s a great way to stay connected to your partner when you can’t physically be together. So, below are some tips to get you started sexting.

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Biases are sneaky little buggers. When they align with what’s culturally considered normal, they can even be invisible. Personal stigmas and biases about sex are even more covert because sexuality isn’t a subject that we talk about every day. Since the topic of sexuality is already taboo, it allows toxic ideas to fester unnoticed. But it’s your responsibility to learn about the biases you have and do what you can to dismantle them. It’s not only good for the people that you hold unfair opinions of—it’s good for you, too! After all, you don’t want to spend your whole life believing myths and falsehoods about people who are different from you just because that’s the information you were given during childhood.

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Everyone needs to have a bucket list for sex. Why? Well, it’s one part dreaming about the future, one part total fantasy, and one part strategic planning and goal-setting. It’s a way to get to know yourself and your partner better, to assess your current sex life, and understand where you want it to go. It’s also a good reminder that there are still sexual frontiers you haven’t explored. On a bucket list, you can go a little beyond the realm of what’s currently possible and put down your wildest hopes and dreams for what could be. Without one, you could settle into a routine, which almost always leads to sexual boredom. Don’t do that! Instead, consider my list of ideas below as a jumping-off point for your own sexual bucket list.

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There’s a big difference between having sex and exploring your sexuality. Many people think the act of sex is an expression of their sexuality, but that’s not always the case. The truth is that expressing your individual sexuality takes a lot of thoughtful intention. Exploring your sexuality can help with this. When you explore your sexuality, you discover what you like, what you don’t, and you’re empowered to get what you need during sexual experiences. Plus, you become more self-fulfilled, and intimacy comes easier since you can give your partners a heads up about your preferences.

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Helping men who have difficulty getting erections or maintaining desire is a big part of my job. Many people will go through a period of low libido, and it’s important to find ways to experience sexual satisfaction again. I’ve got several tricks in my toolbox, and today I’m going to tell you about a new one that can help you if you’re not feeling as DTF as usual. So, if you want to find out how to improve your relationship with your penis, keep reading.

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