Advice Articles

Best Positions for Ultimate Pleasure

December 05, 2022 Advice, Sex Education, PSE - Pornstar Experience

Sex positions can completely change your experience of sex. If you disagree, just ask someone with arthritis or a bad back. Which sex positions will feel like fireworks versus those that will feel painful, exhausting, or just meh depends on your body, your turn-ons, and your partner. The positions you see when you watch porn might be unbelievable and hot, but they also might be unrealistic for someone with average endurance and flexibility. Below are my top recommendations for the best sex positions for ultimate pleasure. Some will work for you that won’t work for others, and vice versa. And that’s okay! Our differences are what make sexual experiences so unique and memorable. But what makes these positions the best for ultimate pleasure is that they increase comfort, gratification, and visual or tactile appeal, making them a win-win-win.

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Sexy Halloween Costumes to Spice Things Up

October 20, 2022 Advice, Couples Parties, Role Playing, Sex Education

Let’s get sexy this Halloween. Sure, you could dress up in the low-maintenance costume you always wear, but branching out is so much fun! Plus, sexy Halloween costumes give you double the bang for your buck: not only can you blow everyone away at the Halloween party, but your partner—or a sexy stranger—might not be able to resist you, either.

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How to Keep the Spark Alive in a Long-Term Relationship

September 22, 2022 Advice, Couples Parties, Sex Education

Long-term relationships can add so much to your life: you have a partner who knows you, understands you, and (hopefully!) someone with whom you’re comfortable being your most authentic self. But it’s also challenging to keep your sex life at the level of energy, longing, and magnetism that you had in the beginning. Luckily, if you’ve been with your partner for years, you can have the best of both worlds: comfort and heat—here’s how.

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How to Ask Someone on a First Date

September 11, 2022 Advice, GFE - Girlfriend Experience

Having a crush on someone is so much fun. When you’re ready to take it to the next level and see if you’re compatible, you will need to ask them on a date. If you find it tough to read between the lines, this conversation can be intimidating, to say the least. But it doesn’t have to be awkward or scary. Use my tips below to learn how to ask someone on a first date!

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Female Orgasm Guide

August 28, 2022 Advice, Sex Education, Specialty

Throughout history, the female orgasm has taken a long and winding road to legitimacy. Often treated as an afterthought, and frequently considered by scientists to be “without purpose,” it’s no surprise that folks with vulvas and clitorises experience far less sexual satisfaction on average than those who have penises.

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Top 5 Reasons Why You Should See a Sex Worker

August 21, 2022 Advice, Podcast, Sex Education, PSE - Pornstar Experience

If you’re on the fence about coming to see me, let me help you make up your mind. A little-known truth about sex work is that it’s not just an indulgence—it’s often a form of self-care that can improve the quality of your life, sometimes long-term. So, let’s talk about the top five reasons you should see a sex worker.

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How to Lose Your Virginity

August 08, 2022 Advice, First Visit, Virgin

Losing your virginity is a big decision, but it’s also an exciting milestone that’s fun to cross off your bucket list. It’s the stuff that movies are made of: the plot is typically set up as a coming of age story, and then a precious love scene happens where the main character loses their virginity to their childhood sweetheart. And after their virgin status is officially gone, they see the world through a whole new vantage point.

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Upgrade Your Threesome with Intimacy

July 19, 2022 Advice, Couples Parties, Sex Education, Two Girl Parties

Threesomes are one of my favorite ways to connect with my clients. Not only are they a diversion from the norm, but they can also be incredibly intimate. Yes, intimate! It might sound counterintuitive, but it’s true. Threesomes are fun when they’re casual, but they are extra memorable when they are intimate. If you’ve had a threesome on your to-do list, check out some of my tips on how to make it better than ever.

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The Intentional Guide to Better Sex

July 11, 2022 Advice, Couples Parties, GFE - Girlfriend Experience, Sex Education

When it comes to the bedroom, many people just go with the flow. But what if you want to take your love life to the next level? What if you’re looking for something more intimate and connected? Intentional planning is one way to achieve this. In this blog post, we’ll discuss different ways that you can be more intentional with your romantic and sexual encounters. Whether you’re looking to add a bit of kink into your life or want to try a threesome, careful planning can help make sure the experience is fun and safe for everyone involved!

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The Different Kinds of Dominants and Submissives

June 14, 2022 Advice, BDSM, Specialty, Kink and Fetish

People who are new to or unfamiliar with BDSM oftentimes think that domination and submission are cut-and-dried roles. But one of the most fun things about BDSM is that it demands you use your imagination. So, there are as many kinds of dominant and submissive roles as you can come up with and enjoy. To help give you some ideas for your next kinky playtime, I’m going to unravel the different kinds of dominants and submissives. Then, you can conceptually try them on and see what (if any!) fit your fantasies.

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