Spooky season is finally upon us, so it’s time to own up to your most horrifying fantasies. Don’t worry; we all have them—that sexual fantasy that might make someone else’s jaw drop. Fantasies like these are all too common, and they’re nothing to be afraid of. In fact, there’s nothing more fun than enacting something spooky in a safe and consensual way.
How to Know If the Girlfriend Experience Is Right for You
Though brothels are known for being a one-stop shop for all things sexual, one of the most often overlooked things they offer is intimacy. People who want more than a quick blowjob might be interested in something called the Girlfriend Experience, where they get the chance to go a bit deeper than just sex. In the biz, we refer to the Girlfriend Experience as GFE for short. So, if you’re thinking about booking the GFE, below are some ways to tell if this is how you’ll best enjoy your time at the brothel.
How to Keep the Spark Alive in a Long-Term Relationship
Long-term relationships can add so much to your life: you have a partner who knows you, understands you, and (hopefully!) someone with whom you’re comfortable being your most authentic self. But it’s also challenging to keep your sex life at the level of energy, longing, and magnetism that you had in the beginning. Luckily, if you’ve been with your partner for years, you can have the best of both worlds: comfort and heat—here’s how.
Female Orgasm Guide
Throughout history, the female orgasm has taken a long and winding road to legitimacy. Often treated as an afterthought, and frequently considered by scientists to be “without purpose,” it’s no surprise that folks with vulvas and clitorises experience far less sexual satisfaction on average than those who have penises.
Top 5 Reasons Why You Should See a Sex Worker
If you’re on the fence about coming to see me, let me help you make up your mind. A little-known truth about sex work is that it’s not just an indulgence—it’s often a form of self-care that can improve the quality of your life, sometimes long-term. So, let’s talk about the top five reasons you should see a sex worker.
Upgrade Your Threesome with Intimacy
Threesomes are one of my favorite ways to connect with my clients. Not only are they a diversion from the norm, but they can also be incredibly intimate. Yes, intimate! It might sound counterintuitive, but it’s true. Threesomes are fun when they’re casual, but they are extra memorable when they are intimate. If you’ve had a threesome on your to-do list, check out some of my tips on how to make it better than ever.
The Intentional Guide to Better Sex
When it comes to the bedroom, many people just go with the flow. But what if you want to take your love life to the next level? What if you’re looking for something more intimate and connected? Intentional planning is one way to achieve this. In this blog post, we’ll discuss different ways that you can be more intentional with your romantic and sexual encounters. Whether you’re looking to add a bit of kink into your life or want to try a threesome, careful planning can help make sure the experience is fun and safe for everyone involved!
How to Discuss Group Sex With Your Significant Other
Group sex, threesomes, and orgies are widespread fantasies of not just my clientele, but also of the average human being. It takes a certain degree of self-awareness to determine if you’re interested in actually acting out the fantasies you have or if you’d prefer to keep them in the recesses of your mind. It takes quite a bit more intuition to determine if group sex would be a fun, cool memory to make with your partner or a nightmare that awakens that ugly, green monster: jealousy.
Benefits of Bottoming
People who have never joined in on all the fun that is held within the letters BDSM often wonder: why do bottoms do it? Who would volunteer to submit, to be restrained, and to face the blurry line between pleasure and pain, when instead, you could be the one in charge? These questions often arise for two reasons: the question asker is a top, or they haven’t realized the many benefits of being the bottom.
Top, Bottom, or Switch: Where Do You Fit Into BDSM?
To begin, BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism, and these components all involve some form of consensual power exchange during sexual activity. Trying new activities in bed isn’t just fun; it’s good for your mental and physical health. But, understanding whether you’re a top or whether you’re a bottom—in an activity you’ve not tried yet—is intimidating because it doesn’t always correlate with your outside-of-the-bedroom personality. So, if you’re curious about giving bondage a try but unsure where’d you fit into the power dynamics, take the quiz below to find out if you’re a top, bottom, or switch.