If you’re on the fence about coming to see me, let me help you make up your mind. A little-known truth about sex work is that it’s not just an indulgence—it’s often a form of self-care that can improve the quality of your life, sometimes long-term. So, let’s talk about the top five reasons you should see a sex worker. 

1. To Upgrade Your Sexual Toolkit

Being good in bed is on the minds of just about everyone who is sexually active—and learning how to please someone else isn’t as intuitive as you might think. Unfortunately, the sex education that occurs in schools doesn’t quite cover everything, and in many cases, it doesn’t even have to be science-based. That means that what you learned might not be accurate. Even in the best-case scenario, your sex education likely only covered how to avoid pregnancy and STIs. Very few places address sexual pleasure, consent, and how to keep your sex life interesting in a long-term relationship, but these issues affect everyone who has sex. 

Mining the vast knowledge of a sex worker is a great way to level up your sexual acumen quickly. Whether you’re a virgin or a seasoned sex-haver, there’s probably an area that you could get better at with some advice and hands-on experience. And sex education is one of my favorite services to offer. I can give you tips on how to be better at oral or help you make foreplay an unforgettable experience. Either way, many of my clients leave our time together with a newfound sense of sexual confidence.

2. To Try Something New

If you don’t have a sexual bucket list, it’s time to change that. Trying new things in the bedroom is one of the best ways to spend your time and money. Imagine that, right now, there is a path to sexual pleasure and potentially orgasm that you’ve never experienced before. You wouldn’t want to go the rest of your life without experiencing it, right? Sexual exploration, finding out where your boundaries lie, and learning everything you can about your body and pleasure are some of the greatest joys in life. And it’s much easier to do with an expert by your side. 

Think about it: most of the time, threesomes don’t just magically occur. Nor does running into someone who can give you an explosive erotic massage or tie you up and dominate you happen by chance. It takes a lot of time and energy to find the right person. Going to a brothel where you can choose the right person to cross something off your bucket list is like a shortcut—one that more people should use. 

3. Because Connection and Intimacy Are Good for You

Everyone goes through periods of loneliness and isolation in their lives. The pandemic is a recent reminder that circumstances beyond our control sometimes force us to be alone. And too much aloneness isn’t good for anyone. Worse yet, loneliness is associated with a decline in physical health as well as mental health. It’s that serious. 

Maybe you travel a lot for work, or perhaps most of your friends and family live a long distance from you. Either way, it’s a good idea to find some connection and intimacy, and a sex worker who offers the girlfriend experience is a great place to find exactly that. Some of my favorite experiences have been the intimate, one-on-one moments with my client that go far beyond sex.

4. To Improve Your Relationship

I work with couples to help them deepen their sexual connection, and it’s one of the most rewarding parts of being a sex worker. Many people are under the impression that sex happens instinctively and naturally and doesn’t require much discussion. But the better you become at sexual communication, the hotter your sex life can be. I have worked with countless couples who have mismatched libidos, are experiencing sexual dysfunction, or simply want to learn new ways to seduce each other. Plus, sex workers can give tactile, interactive demos that traditional sex therapists aren’t allowed to, which makes the learning curve much shorter. Helping couples rekindle their sexual connection and get out of a dull sexual routine is what I love to do, and I have a lot of fun while doing it. 

5. Because It’s a Safe Way to Have a Good Time

People tend to associate brothels with wild, fun parties. And that’s true: the parties at a brothel are like nothing else. But what is not as well-known about the brothels is how seriously they take your safety and sexual health. Legal sex workers are incredibly skilled at having sexy fun that’s safe, even during complicated encounters like an orgy. You don’t have to worry about which brand of condom works with the toys we’re using or whether our activities call for different types of barriers. You can leave the leg work to me, and I’ll ensure we stay safe throughout, so you can focus on how hot everything you’re experiencing is. 

Book Some Time with Me

No matter your reasons for coming to see me, I’m excited to get to know you. Contact me at [email protected], and we can start planning our time together.