Prostate massage, prostate milking, prostate stimulation, and pegging are all common variations on one of my all time favorite sex experiences! Focused around the often mysteriously described prostate, such activities may seem complicated, taboo, or overly aggressive. The reality is, prostate play is something everyone would benefit from exploring! While it isn’t for everyone, many men find prostate stimulation to be a crucial component to having a powerful orgasm. So, just how does one go about playing with their prostate? When done correctly, it’s like fireworks, stars, and your birthday all rolled into one. Curious? Keep reading.

So what is a prostate?

The prostate is a gland only found in the male body. Varying in size from that of a cherry to that of a peach, this gland is responsible for making up to 1/3 of what goes into semen. When you orgasm and you feel your body ‘quiver’- thats your prostate doing its job! Ever hear of the G-spot on a woman? Well, the prostate is sometimes referred to as being the ‘p’ spot; which is fitting, because when stimulated it can produce incredibly powerful orgasms. Located inside the rectum, it doesn’t require tons of pressure or penetration to adequately cause stimulation.

No, you aren’t gay if you enjoy it. Prostate stimulation – including pegging – has literally nothing to do with your sexuality, and shouldn’t serve as an indicator of “gay-ness”. Prostate stimulation is enjoyed by men from all walks of life across the full sexuality spectrum, and is quickly becoming one of the trendiest things to try in 2018! Regardless of your orientation, the prostate plays a key role in orgasm and ejaculation so it’s well worthwhile to test your boundaries and explore something new!

I’m all about assisting with that exploration! Let’s book a date – you can find me here.