Does Size Matter?

by | November 24, 2017 | Relationship Advice | 6 comments

Penis size is a constant topic for conversation. Is my penis too small? Is it too short, too chubby, or not straight enough? Is it normal? How does it compare to others? Being a legal sex worker at the Moonlite Bunny Ranch leaves me uniquely qualified to answer that question. Over the past two years of working at the Bunny Ranch, I can confidently say that penis size does not matter.

Did you know that for many women, there’s actually more of a problem with someone being too long rather than not long enough? The average vaginal depth is just 3-4 inches (though when aroused, can increase in depth by over 200%!). This means that the majority of men are closer to the perfect length! The secret is angle. You want to be at the correct angle during sex, so that you make contact with as many pleasure points as possible. You can make contact with both the clitoris and the g-spot at the same time to maximize pleasure for your partner.

The width, or diameter of the penis is also a measurement that men are concerned about. Am I going to be able to ‘fill’ my partner? Absolutely! Width is something that varies greatly from one penis to the next- so the first thing you should do is compare yourself to what ‘normal’ is. There’s no standard width, and there’s a variety of techniques you can use depending on your unique build. If you find that you’re of a girthier size, consider forward in-and-out movements, sinking deeply into your partner. Be sure to use adequate lube, and warm your partner up beforehand. If you’re of narrow build, consider circular motions to explore different pleasurable angles!

Straight vs. Curved
Penis angle is a very interesting subject! Some curve upwards, some to one side, while others are ram rod straight. Each has its own unique advantages as well as disadvantages, making no one angle better than others. If you find you naturally curve up or down, explore with positions like Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl. These controlled-angle positions with the woman on top allow her to situate herself so your natural curves give her maximum pleasure! If you’re perfectly straight, doggie style is going to be lots of fun. Experiment with standing at the edge of the bed and penetrating your partner while she lies on her back! You’ll both find the variety to be stimulating and pleasurable!
At the end of the day, there isn’t a perfect penis trophy. There isn’t an ideal standard you should feel like you have to measure up to. The way you are is perfect! If you’re determined to alter or change your penile dimensions, the safest method is by using a cock sheath. You can add inches, girth, texture, or a combination of all three. Don’t be afraid to break outside of your normal bedroom routine, and try something new!


  1. jg586

    Great blog post. Dick size is such a hard subject- no pun intended!

  2. Alice Wonder

    Hello Alice! The name “Alice Wonder” I use is a coincidence, but I must say a very lovely one 😉

    I am a male who likes to go by Alice Wonder – well, I’m mostly male, I do have some feminine qualities about me – possibly because my mother was a woman and I think my father’s mom was a woman too.

    But anyway I am “average” size but I really like Small Penis Humiliation, it can be a lot of fun! However I want to thank you for writing this blog because as with any humiliation fetish, it really is only healthy when both parties understand it is just a role play and a role play that can be exited at any time.

    A lot of men I know are very self-conscious about their dick size, and I think that is a shame because I think if they were more comfortable with who they are, they could have more fun with who they are – including role playing SPH as I sometimes like to do.

    Have a merry Christmas, and remember Santa knows who the naughty girls are 😉

  3. Jeffrey Lancaster Noble

    Nice, message Alice I have an big problem with this department, your help shines an light on this thanks for your touch on this I appreciate this your friend: Jeffrey:

  4. Robert Reeves

    Wow, it is always interesting getting a woman’s view on penis size. Based on what you said, men should not get too hung up on the size of their cock. No matter what your penis size, you can satisfy must women if you use the right technique. That’s comforting to know!

  5. E

    Brilliant article, gives a lot of us hope and guidance. Thank you Alice, muah

  6. Richard H

    I do worry about size a bit, I’ll try to keep this in mind.


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