I’m Alice Little, a redhead escort and companion with years of experience at Nevada’s legal brothels like the Bunny Ranch and currently the Chicken Ranch. If I’ve learned anything as a luxury escort, it’s that shame is one of the biggest barriers to pleasure—and one of the most unnecessary.
It never fails: someone books time with me—nervous, hesitant, clearly excited—and somewhere between the first kiss and the first compliment, they say it.
"I'm sorry... this is weird, isn’t it?"
"I'm not usually like this."
"I hope this doesn’t make me a bad person."
I’m Alice Little, a redhead escort and companion with years of experience at Nevada’s legal brothels like the Bunny Ranch and currently the Chicken Ranch. If I’ve learned anything as a luxury escort, it’s that shame is one of the biggest barriers to pleasure—and one of the most unnecessary.
Desire Doesn’t Require an Apology
Let me say this clearly: your fantasies don’t need to be justified, defended, or diminished. Whether you're into sensual intimacy, dominant submission, or something that doesn’t even have a name yet, your desires are valid.
Our culture teaches us early—especially women, queer folks, and anyone outside the mainstream—that desire must come with guilt. But guilt is not a sign of morality. It's a sign of conditioning. And conditioning can be unlearned.
Fantasies Are Windows, Not Warnings
People often confuse thoughts with actions. But fantasizing about something doesn’t mean you’re broken or dangerous. It means you’re curious. The brain is an exploratory organ, and sexuality is one of its richest playgrounds.
At the Chicken Ranch, I’ve had clients share everything from vanilla dreams to full-blown fantasy roleplays. And you know what they all have in common? A need to feel seen—not judged.
You Can Be Respectful and Direct
If you’ve ever felt embarrassed to say, “This is what I want,” you’re not alone. But expressing your desires clearly and confidently is one of the sexiest things you can do.
I always encourage communication—whether you’re with a professional companion like me or exploring with a personal partner. Respect and honesty are the foundation of unforgettable intimacy.
You’re not "too much." You’re just not used to being celebrated.
Learning to Speak the Language of Pleasure
So how do you stop apologizing for what turns you on? Here are a few steps I offer my clients:
- Acknowledge Your Desires – Write them down. Say them aloud. Don’t flinch.
- Educate Yourself – Books like Come As You Are or The Erotic Mind can help reframe how you see your own fantasies.
- Practice Consent Culture – Learning how to give and get a “yes” makes everyone feel safer.
- Talk to a Sex-Positive Professional – A session with a companion—whether at the Bunny Ranch, Chicken Ranch, or elsewhere—can be deeply healing and validating.
You Deserve Luxury—In All Forms
As a luxury escort, I often say that great sex is like great wine: complex, layered, and worth savoring. But if you’re drinking it out of a paper cup and apologizing the whole time, you’ll never really taste it.
Stop saying sorry. Start saying yes.